How people react when you’re upset shows a lot about their character.
Fight, say nasty things – this person doesn’t care.
“I’m so sorry, honey. I wish I could be there with you.” – this person wants to emotionally support you.
“I don’t want you feeling that way. You have your papi now. I will protect you. You’re not alone anymore, okay?” – this person not only wants to protect you, but recognizes your feelings as precious.
There are good people in the world….just don’t let them get too close because that equals disaster.